Family

Missy | November 30, 2008

Many of you know that my grandmother recently passed away. While I was in Ohio, I found some old heirlooms, such as my great-grandmother’s McGuffey Reader, my grandfather’s German hymnal that was given to him on his confirmation, and copies of Evangeline and The Scarlet Letter that date to maybe the early 1900’s. My aunt had collected old photos and I brought some home to scan. Here are a few:

The Long family at their home. The Longs were my great, great-grandparents through the female line, and possibly the only sliver of non-German in my heritage. Look at that beautiful dog! Many of the photos reveal that I come from dog people. Dog-owning people, I mean, not that the sliver of non-Germans are half-man, half-dog.

My great, great-grandfather Long. That, sir, is a damn fine bull.

I think the woman in the middle is my great, great-grandmother Eibling. The clothes throughout these photos are what most fascinate me.

My great-grandparents, Jacob and Iva (Long) Eibling.

Jacob (right) and his brother-in-law John, who was married to Iva’s sister Maggie. (I think I got this right.) I also come from farmers, if that wasn’t obvious by now.

Jacob and my grandmother on the left. The caption said, “Where I helped tile. North 40.” I Googled ’tile’, which revealed some sort of agricultural drainage process.

My grandmother, on the far right with white hair and a light dress, in a class photo c. early 1920’s.

My grandpa and grandma Borger. He was in the WWII Glider Infantry.

I’m told my grandpa was a proud man (not to mention, he had a strong German work ethic). I think these photos of his tractor and his car reveal as much. He died in 1983 and my memory of him consists mostly of his impenetrable German accent and his terrorizing us kids with his dentures. (I’m also told that great-grandma Borger spoke no English but that grandma Borger yelled at my grandpa whenever he muttered in German.)

Not the best photo. But, I just learned that my grandma used to chop the heads off the chickens. Somehow, I am not surprised by this.

My mother with some of her cousins, Charlie, Jim, Bill, and another Jim. I love this photo because of the squalling Jims.

It was bound to happen sooner or later…

Missy | November 17, 2008

I got hit by a cab today. I was in the bike lane on Warren Street; he decided to pull out into traffic without looking. I saw it coming and slammed my brakes and somehow–somehow–there was absolutely no damage. I can’t figure it out because I swear he hit my wheel. Maybe it was just my pedal? It seemed unnecessary to waste everyone’s time by bringing in the law, but I wasted no time getting in his face and bawling him out for a solid five minutes. I didn’t even get nasty. By the time I left, I had him saying, “I respect bicyclists. I respect bicyclists.”

It could have been much worse, I know. I realized this when I finally got to the light on the other side of the bridge and burst into tears. Before I get calls for “Be careful!” or, worse, to hang up the wheels, I need to say that AM careful. I wear blinking lights on the front & back (other cyclists, please do this - I can’t see you when you’re coming toward me on the bridge); I signal; I’m assertive without being an asshole; and I’m always watching for the next cab to pull a dick move. I’m just upset that drivers can be so careless.

My New Favorite Song, vol 1

Missy | November 11, 2008

Swedish pop/soul band Those Dancing Days, “Hitten”.

That singer is adorable. She’s like an alterna-Mariah Carey.

(First in an occasional series.)

Bike log, vol 6 - Oh noes! edition

Missy | November 9, 2008

Hillary had two rear-wheel flats today (actually, just one, but the patch didn’t hold and so the tube had to be replaced). Luckily, Ezra builds bikes and Bill fixes them so they had every tool and tube necessary to fix her up quick.

We also had some unfortunate encounters with poop somewhere in the vicinity of the second flat; I got off light by merely rolling through it, Ezra’s mom stepped in some, and poor Joy put her (gloved) hand in yet more when she sat down waiting for the tube to be fixed.

However! It was a great ride through Van Cortlandt park (despite the treacherous blanket of damp leaves) after passing by the Bronx Zoo and Botanical Garden, back around Inwood Hill Park, and the Harlem River Drive, followed by brunch at Toast in Morningside Heights. I think I totaled 30 miles; it felt good but I’m still trying to wrestle down last night’s hangover–my first in a long time–and my legs are surprisingly tired, so I’m going back to bed. See ya!

Obama!

Missy | November 5, 2008

I hope the mood where you are compares to that in New York. The emotion last night (and undoubtedly continuing throughout the days to come) was enough to crack even the most cynical. I’m exhausted and will probably be late for work; I’m sure you’re still just as slaphappy and stunned. So be it!

(Of course, trust The Onion to put things into perspective.)

Happy Post-Election Day!

Bike log, vol 5

Missy | November 2, 2008

No map today - I was out with a bike gang in the northern part of Manhattan and I can’t recall our route. Good news: Ezra (aka Fast Boy) is back on a seated bike! In honor of Megan (aka Faster Panda Kill Kill) visiting New York for the first time, several of us convened in Harlem for a group outing. Some photos:


Some of our bikes, at Fort Tyron Park. Beautiful day for a trip to the park.


At Ez’s house this morning, Putney was all wound up and playful, but when we got back she was a snugglebug.