Warning: This post brought to you by selfish consumerism

Missy | November 29, 2004

A problem with Amazon wishlists is that once someone buys something off of a wishlist, it disappears from the list. Why is this a problem you say? Because even if someone buys something that they click to from someone’s wishlist and has it sent to themselves for themselves (in other words, not as a gift), the item disappears from the other person’s list. The Wong Kar Wai collection disappeared from my list presumably for this reason; meanwhile my brother wanted to buy it for me, but he couldn’t remember the name “Wong Kar Wai” (he is not into film like I am), so he was out of luck, barring asking me (which he has obviously done because he couldn’t find it). Also, Amazon is not letting me re-add it to my list.

So if that was you who ordered it for yourself by following the link from my list, stop doing that. Or if instead you actually spent a not insignificant chunk of change on this gift for me and I haven’t realized it yet because it has not yet arrived, I still have one question for you: Why?

UPDATE: Deleting the item from the list before re-adding it works.

Missy | November 23, 2004

You might recall a few weeks back when I bought a Rubik’s Cube and then started up a “mystery” chess game with a colleague. (I figured out who it was the very next day, simply by asking him.) The game progressed for several moves over several days, until one Monday morning I walked in to find that someone or something had bumped into the game and ruined it. Anyway, my colleague and I grieved over the lost game for about 5 seconds, and now the board still sits and looks as it did on that fateful Monday morning.

(Also, one day I will start being consistent with the image sizes of photos that appear on this main page so that everything looks prettier. Not yet, though. Actually, I understand Flickr is very blog-friendly, so I may just start throwing all my photos thataway.)

Thanks to Radley, I found this site, a DC-based music blog. Funny stuff. And through this site I’ve learned of a Teenbeat anniversary party early next year featuring reunions of Unrest and Tuscadero. Yessirree.

Missy | November 20, 2004

Odds and Ends

Missy | November 17, 2004

Ladies and gentlemen, my pal Lane is returning to the web. He’s still putting it together, so I may be premature in my linking.

Elsewhere on the web, crafty Catherine has set up shop. Check it out.

I’m late on this one: Despite some early bad press and delays in getting the website/schedule fully operational, Artomatic kicked off last weekend. I’m hoping to get there this weekend. Meanwhile, DC Art News has got a series of Artomatic picks. But it’s not just for art-art, yo. There’s music and dance and film and even poetry. I’ll probably skip the poetry.

Finally, go see The Incredibles. The animation will knock off your socks. Even with the cartoon-y stylized faces of the characters, Pixar’s advancement of animating humans just astounds me. The gestures, the weight. It’s pretty great. Meanwhile, don’t listen to the critics: Tarnation blows. I felt like I was watching an extended music video, or maybe Reality Bites. Or maybe I’ve heard plenty of horrible tales in my life from people who do not have an inherent need to blab their entire business for all the world to see, for the purpose of the world seeing. It reeks of conceit, and frankly, I didn’t give a damn. (Yeah, I know. By that logic, how is having a blog any different? Believe me, I have a love/hate relationship with this thing, and I constantly wrestle with throwing in the towel. For example, most of the time I feel like I’m letting people in on way more information about myself than anyone needs to know, and the thing is, what I do reveal ain’t even the half of it; in which case, why bother? I don’t know, brother, I don’t know.)

Yesterday I was informed that I will not be promoted to a supervisory mathematical statistician in my office, which sort of comes as a relief, I must say. The person selected, as you might guess, has a much stronger background in math and statistics than I do. Meanwhile, I saw a vacancy announcement for a job that I probably couldn’t be more qualified for, at a place I’ve always wanted to work, in a city I dream about.

And this next part you are not going to believe.

In the mere 24 hours that it has taken me to cater a cover letter and my resume to this position (after all, I had class last night and I also have, you know, regular work to do), the vacancy has been, I kid you not, CLOSED (read: filled). Just when I thought stars were aligning to free my ties to DC, the signs that I deserve to stay put are beating me over the head. (I wonder if this has something to do with the fact that, earlier today, I committed to another dance workshop that doesn’t end until mid-March. I’m being punished. I know I am being punished.)

Missy | November 12, 2004

Will has been blogging like cuh-RAY-zzzeee over the last several weeks, and the thing is, I can actually follow the posts. (I am not ashamed to admit some of the heavy-duty political philosophy stuff makes my head go, “ow”. Also, Will, congrats again on the Cato gig.)

Meanwhile, I think I am going to spend the weekend watching the entire first season of The Wire. I’m probably just going to buy it, because once I have an idea in my head, I need to follow through immediately (see also: cutting all my hair off), which means I’ve not got the patience to seek out rentals or wait for Netflix. Me want now!

UPDATE: On the other hand, Blues Explosion is playing at the 9:30 Club tomorrow. Damage, their latest output, is the most straightforward album of theirs yet, but for all its simplicity, it’s got a groove to it. I haven’t seen them play in maybe 8 years and I wonder if they (or I, for that matter) have the same energy, but my longstanding crush on Jon Spencer himself still burns.

Missy | November 11, 2004

What the hell? In my day, recess was prime time to practice my gymnastics. I also remember the days when playground equipment & activity was more or less designed to inflict physical (and, occasionally, emotional) pain on youngsters. How many of us have fallen off of monkey bars or gotten a rough tackle in monster tag only to get up and shake it off? (Save for the time I was doing penny drops off of the high monkey bars–that’s when you dangle by your knees and then flip off and land on your feet. I did them countless times until I landed flat on my back, on the stone-infested dirt “mattress”, and knocked the wind out of myself. Looking back at how that felt–I’ll never forget it–I’m surprised I didn’t simultaneously pee my pants. Still, next day, I was back up there doing them all over again to regain my nerve.) My elementary school even had a wooden balance beam in the recess yard. The worst damage I ever saw with a kid getting hurt at recess was when Tiffany Garman fell on the outdoor basketball court and sliced her head open on a rock and had to go to the emergency room for stitches. (That was a rough year for Tiffany, because I also remember the day she spontaneously vomited all over her desk.)

Of course, those were also the days when the paddle was still in play if you were being extra bad.

Review of American Ballet Theatre at City Center plus some other stuff

Missy | November 7, 2004

Last night I saw ABT at City Center in New York. This is a part of their season when they perform a mixed bill of shorter works rather than full-length costume- & scenery-heavy story ballets (plus, the small stage won’t allow for the grand stuff). The program started with Ballanchine’s Mozartiana, which is actually set to Tchaikovsky, music which shares the same name (which I just found out because it baffled me). Julie Kent was the ballerina of the evening (her debut in this work), and despite a bobble finishing a turn sequence towards the end (and did I actually hear someone boo when she took her curtain call?), it was lovely to see her dancing again post-baby. In a role made famous by Suzanne Farrell, there are few ballerinas I’d probably enjoy seeing performing this piece, and Kent (although lacking the same dramatic musicality but not the beauty) was the right person in this part. Next was the whole reason I went to New York in the first place: William Forsythe’s workwithinwork. I don’t think it’s his best piece (that I’ve seen), but the dancers looked spectacular. At the risk of slighting our local ballet company here, ABT has the depth to thrillingly carry off a large & complicated ensemble piece (though I was quite fond of the Washington Ballet’s performance of in the middle, somewhat elevated). For as challenging and weirdly gestural as Forsythe’s choreography is, dancers I’ve seen seem to excel in it. One of the male roles (was that wunderkind Herman Cornejo? I couldn’t tell) featured its own unusual & extremely difficult choreography…sort of like a cross between the fluidity & precision of breakdancing mixed with the speed of “Flight of the Bumblebee”. Seriously, it was a stunner. The audience went nutso for the last piece, Kirk Peterson’s Amazed in Burning Dreams. Let’s just say that the music (Philip Glass) was strike one for me against it. Strike two was the bizarre red-streaked make-up. And the third was the fact that the piece lacks any sort of notable aesthetic. There’s an sense of personality in the works of Balanchine, Forsythe, and Tudor (among others) that often takes much rehearsal, if not years of working within the the choreographic elements to cultivate. Granted, I am unfamiliar with Peterson’s work, I didn’t get any real sense of identity from it. Sure, the ensemble cast looked great, but overall, I found it forgettable.

Meanwhile, how much do I love the City Club hotel’s bathrooms? I took three showers while I was there. Also, the hotel is staffed by hot young men who remind me of Smith Jared from Sex and the City. (Please, there are no dots to be connected between the previous two sentences.)

Yesterday morning I got into town just in time to rush up to the UWS to Steps on Broadway (I realized I’d never been further north than Lincoln Center. I had no idea the UWS was such a nice area…actually, I’m not surprised, but I had no concept of the neighborhood before now). Immediately upon walking in (it’s been awhile since I’ve taken any dance classes in New York), I had a moment of panic seeing all the women bustling about in pointe shoes with true ballerina’s bodies and I thought, what the hell am I doing here? But that quickly passed. I took a Horton class with a teacher I knew, and I had a great class, if I do say so myself. (Lately, I’ve been feeling not so good about myself, my technique, my ability to adapt myself to hard choreography, and my musicality. After this weekend, I am totally inspired. I am going to dance better.) This teacher gives fantastic corrections and I felt myself improving dramatically over the course of 90 minutes. (Who knew too much tucking of the pelvis instead of lengthening through the back above it causes an overdevelopment in the muscles of the front hips? Not me. And now you know, too. Also, one of the reasons I strongly believe in music and dance education for children–not only to develop an appreciation for the arts and for them to find ways to express themselves–is because it teaches people–children and adults alike, actually–how to take the right kind of criticism the right way, and how to use it to better oneself, to know how to be smart about one’s efforts.)

Yesterday afternoon I had some time to kill, and I figured the right kind of counterbalance to the swankiness of my hotel was to wander over Hells Kitchen way to Rudy’s, a dive bar on 9th. As far as dive bars go, this one set a new standard. The bar maid, the interior, and the clientele all look like they date back to the days of Prohibition. And you can get a Maker’s Mark for $4. As I had my drink (while whiling away the time with a crossword puzzle), I started to become depressed at the environment and knew I had to get out of there as soon as my drink was drunk. Not for, I might add, the loud rowdy blues music mixed with Bon Jovi on the jukebox. Of the 8 or so patrons, half had white hair and most were slumped over their drinks. I felt like I had stumbled upon a real life set of Barfly.

The rest of the time, I walked. The weather was superb. I walked along Central Park from class to my hotel, which was like 30 blocks, until one remembers that the north-south blocks in New York are pretty short. (Although there was no way I was willing to walk the ten blocks from City Center to my hotel in three inch heels, despite the amount of time it took to get a cab.) This morning, while the city seemed to still sleep (or maybe they were gathered along the marathon route), I strolled around relatively empty streets in Greenwich Village and Union Square. It’s a lonely city, New York, and I felt lonely in it. It’s easy to disappear. I still love it, though.

Missy | November 4, 2004

In case anyone is wondering about my dance audition update: it didn’t work out. In a stressed-out-sounding email today from the artistic director, she indicated she is not taking on any additional female dancers (beyond those she’s worked with in last year). Of course, in my post-other-dance-rehearsal endorphin high, I can presently say that’s okay with me and that I’m already overextended as it is right now. But my overextension, like most things, will come to an eventual end in the near-term. I also had an interview today for a possible job promotion/career shift, and said interview went well. At the time, however, that brought about new waves of anxiety. Maybe I am not so good with coping with change.

*sigh* It’s been a long and busy couple of weeks. I think it’s time to sit down and enjoy the long-awaited return of The O.C. If I can keep my eyes open, that is.

Missy | November 3, 2004

Holy crap. I had heard alerts while at work today that the red line was completely shut down around the Woodley station, though my rush hour commute (only two stops to get to the green line) wasn’t as backed up as I initially feared. But still. What a nightmare.

Missy | November 1, 2004

I just finished day 5 of 6 with Helanius (as in Wilkins, my teacher, who deserves some link love) with class or rehearsal (often both) and I am tired, I can’t lie. But in terms of the concept known as peaking, I think I am getting there. (I’m part of an informal performance in about a month.)

(So right now I am super wired. I’m not sure how I’m going to make it out of bed in the morning to vote, since there’s no time during the rest of the day or evening. Maybe I’ll just duck out of work a little early. UPDATE: It took me awhile to find my voter registration card–even though I’m not sure I’ll need it–and in the process I discovered a business card that I got from a cab driver/bounty hunter (!) years ago. Mihow, surely you remember that incident?!? Mihow has a knack for striking up instant friendships with cab drivers and cajoling their life stories out of them. She often sits in the front seat with them. I, however, simply save every damn thing that’s handed to me, apparently.)

I feel like I’ve burned as many calories as this weekend’s DC marathoners. Speaking of marathons, it occurred to me why I had trouble finding a hotel room in New York for this coming Saturday: Sunday is the NYC marathon. Oh well. I will be sleeping on sheets that cost about as much as one month’s rent. (Fortunately, I’m not paying nearly so much to stay there–thanks to Donnie for pointing me to quickbook.com, even though the quote you’ll get through the hotel’s site is equivalent to about one month’s rent in NYC. ) I’m excited–ABT is bringing to DC full-length ballets that I’ve seen before come spring, and I’m looking forward to seeing the shorter contemporary works on a more intimate stage at City Center. I’m also taking the train up early to catch a Horton-based modern class at Steps. Gotta keep my stamina up and whatnot.